Day 4 · Morning
Sehra Bandi & Ghodi Chadhi
ਸਿਹਰਾ ਬੰਨਣ / ਘੋੜੀ ਚੜ੍ਹਨਾ
The groom’s turban is tied, sehra placed, and he mounts the mare.
A short but deeply traditional ceremony at the groom’s home before the baraat sets off. A small ardaas blesses the turban and sehra. The father ties the turban, the brother-in-law (or sister) ties on the sehra (a curtain of pearls or flowers covering the face), the sister-in-law applies a black surma dot to ward off the evil eye, and the groom is handed a ceremonial sword. The decorated mare is fed dal and water by the female relatives, the groom mounts (ghodi chadhna), and the dancing baraat sets off.
A little history
The ghodi chadhna is one of the oldest surviving Punjabi wedding rituals — pre-dating most of what we now think of as the Sikh wedding. The sehra was originally functional (protecting the groom from sun and dust on the journey to the bride’s village) and became symbolic only later. The black surma dot is the same nazar-utaarna logic as in many South Asian cultures — dust, kohl, or smoke to deflect envy.
Who attends
Groom’s side only. Parents, siblings, brother- and sister-in-law (the kalgi-tyer + surma-applier are usually a sister or bhabhi), close cousins, and the dancing baraat.
Typical guests
30–80 people at the home; full baraat fans out from there
What to plan
- Wedding turban (sherwani-matching, tied by a pagh-banan-wala)
- Sehra (pearls, flowers, or gold ribbons — book with florist)
- Kalgi (decorative pin/jewel for the turban)
- Surma stick + small kohl pot
- Ceremonial sword (kirpan) — borrow or rent if family doesn’t have one
- Decorated mare (book 2 months ahead in destination weddings)
- Chana dal + water in a small thaal for the mare-feeding ritual
- Tikka + cash gift for the sister tying the kalgi
- Backup transport (car) for the long stretches between venues
- Photographer briefed on sehra-tying + mounting
Samaan checklist
Avoid these mistakes
- Brief the bhabhi BEFORE the day — many forget the gift expectation
- Mare can spook in city venues — confirm a quiet mounting spot
- Sehra needs to be put on AFTER hair + makeup is complete
- Allow 30 min buffer — turban tying never finishes on time
- Confirm gurdwara/venue allows mare entry — many don’t
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